Tips For Writing Your Private Affairs Personal Ad

Start by being yourself. It's easy to overdo it, exaggerate and tell people something that you'd wish you were rather than who you really are. But this doesn't work in the long run. Fantasies are NOT how to meet someone special. And you aren't very special by being dishonest. Take a moment right now and list your good and bad features, something like this:

Now that your list is done, it's time to let it all make some sense and work on your strong points. Take your list and sleep on it for a day or two. These are the things that make you an individual and we want to work on the good things! Start writing your personal ad now and include the things that make up your good points. Talk about yourself as someone would introduce you to someone new. The third person approach allows for you to not come over as too vain or insecure. Just be honest and describe yourself as you have been described.

Once you have been surfing and browsing the Private Affairs personals services, find a couple of members that interest you. Read what the other men (if you are a man) or women (if you are a woman) are putting in their own ads and see if what they are saying makes sense to you and appeals to your sense of honesty. Do the ads you are reading seem truthful? Like someone you'd like to meet? When you read the ad, does it make you want to become that person's friend? This is the reaction that you are looking for. 

Pay attention to the headlines that are leading you into delving farther into the ads. What works for you? Which ones grab your attention? How can you make it work for you? Take your time and aim high! Don't just copy a nice headline, change it to reflect the person you are and make it work for you! ©