There are no doubt many self-righteous people out there who will be outraged at the very idea of what this website is all about. Believe me, I myself was troubled for a long time with the whole idea of extramarital relationships, went to see counselor, even talked to a priest, explaining my dark desires and took their advice to heart. This still did not deter me. I was absolutely committed to having an affair. I was also determined to remain married.

In order to go about this the right way, I turned to the internet to find information on this taboo subject. I found that there is very little out there in cyberland about successfully pursuing or maintaining an extramarital affair. What information I did find always seemed to be buried deep within the ramblings of some psychologist advising against an affair or how to save a marriage after the discovery of an affair.

After months of searching, I had little more than a handful of ideas, and so decided to put together and publish my own website dedicated to the subject. Initially, the content was made up of my own determinations based on information I did manage to find on the internet and from my own extramarital experiences. After publishing the website I began to receive a number of e-mails from readers offering their own ideas and insight. Many of their ideas have been incorporated into these pages. Reader ideas that are received each month are added to the website for your perusal.
Some particularly good contributions come from our most insightful forum regulars. These are definitely worthwhile reading.

What you'll find in the following pages is very interesting and informative. Essentially, it is the meat and potatoes of how to minimize the risks of an extramarital affair.

Now, if you are one of those self righteous types that would like to preach the word and tell me just how I'll burn in hell, you can take your bible thumpin' beliefs and get lost . However, if you have ever thought (even for a moment) of what it would be like to have a secret relationship with your secretary, the waiter at your favorite restaurant, the attractive produce manager at the grocery store, or that drop dead gorgeous woman you met in the mall, then you might well be advised to read on.